Wash and chop the thondekai and ivy gourd. You can also precook the thondekai to save time.
Next take oil in a frying pan and heat it. Add in 1/2 tsp mustard seeds, 1 tsp urad dal and 1 tsp chana dal.
When the mustard seeds splutters and urad dal turns brown, add in asafoetida, turmeric powder, broken red chili and curry leaves.
Next add in chopped thondekai. Give a quick mix.
Add in fresh green peas (optional).
Add 1/2 cup of water, bring it to boil, close the lid and cook until soft.
When it is almost cooked, add in jaggery and salt.
Meanwhile dry grind grated coconut, red chili and 1/2 tsp of mustard seeds using a small mixie jar.
Add in ground masala. Give a quick stir.
Add in coriander leaves and mix well for a minute. Switch off the stove. Serve it with hot steaming rice or chapathi.