Rinse and snip off the ends of thondekai or ivy gourd. Then slice them into 1/2cm width circles.
Take oil in a frying pan and heat it. Prepare tempering using mustard seeds, cumin seeds, turmeric powder, asafoetida and curry leaves.
Add in sliced thondekai or ivy gourd.
Mix well for a minute. Close the lid and cook it under low flame by stirring occasionally. This might take at around 10 minutes.
Once the ivy gourd or thondekayi is all shrinken or starts becoming brown here and there it is done.
Add in all spice powders like red chili powder, coriander powder, cumin powder and amchur powder. Give a quick stir.
Dry grind the coconut and add. Again give a quick mix.
Add in salt and mix.
Adjust the salt, sour or spice level as per your taste. I added little more red chili powder at this stage. Mix well and it is done. Serve it with rice or chapathi.