Chop the Ivy gourd (thondekai) lengthwise.
In a pan heat 2 tbsp of oil. Add in 1/2 tsp mustard and few curry leaves.
Wait until mustard seeds splutter. Add in chopped Ivy gourd.
Fry for a minute or two under high flame.
Close the lid, reduce the flame and allow it to cook for few minutes.
Meanwhile take coconut, green chillies and cumin seeds in a mixie jar. Please note, coconut is optional.
Add in coriander leaves.
Add in required water and grind it into a fine paste. Masala ready. Set it aside.
Open the lid. Add in little water, pinch of turmeric and salt as per your taste. Give a quick mix, close the lid and cook until soft by stirring it occassionally.
Add in ground masala.
Give a good mix. Cook for 2 minutes or until the raw smell is gone. Switch off the stove.
Optionally you can add few drops of lemon juice. Serve it with hot steaming rice or chapati.