To beginwith chop Ivy gourd, onion and tomato.
Next lets prepare masala. For that heat a frying pan. Add in peanuts (shenga), coriander seeds and red chilies. Start roasting them under medium flame without adding oil.
When peanuts are light brown, add in sesame seeds.
In no time sesame seeds will splutter. Immediately add in chopped tomato.
Followed by add in grated coconut. Give a quick mix and switch off the stove.
Once they are cool, grind them into a paste by adding required water. Keep it aside.
Heat oil in a frying pan and add in chopped Ivy gourd or thondekai.
Fry for a minute and then add salt. Continue cooking the Ivy gourd by stirring it frequently. You can close the lid for fast cooking.
Once they are cooked, add in chopped onion and curry leaves.
Roast until onions are light brown. And then add ground masala along with a cup of water.
Add in tamarind, turmeric and salt. Give a quick mix.
Close the lid and allow it to cook for 10 minutes under low flame..
Open the lid and sprinkle coriander leaves. Make sure the vegetable is cooked and soft. Swtich off the stove. Enjoy tasty curry with either chapathi or rice.